{"id":1096,"date":"2020-06-17T08:46:54","date_gmt":"2020-06-17T08:46:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/suntbine.md\/?post_type=episode&#038;p=1096"},"modified":"2020-07-24T13:24:02","modified_gmt":"2020-07-24T13:24:02","slug":"3-mama-totul-e-bine","status":"publish","type":"episode","link":"https:\/\/suntbine.md\/?episode=3-mama-totul-e-bine","title":{"rendered":"#3 Mama, totul e bine"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><em>Aboneaz\u0103-te la podcastul \u201eSunt Bine\u201d aici \u0219i las\u0103-ne o recomandare <\/em>\u2b50<em>: <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-layout-flex wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button is-style-outline is-style-outline--1\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-text-color has-vivid-purple-color\" href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/sunt-bine-podcast\/id1505037113\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Apple Podcasts<\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-button is-style-outline is-style-outline--2\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-text-color has-vivid-red-color\" href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.google.com\/?feed=aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy8xODdiMzE5MC9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw%3D%3D\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Google Podcasts<\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-button is-style-outline is-style-outline--3\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-text-color has-vivid-green-cyan-color\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/0uzfEeaELxUIpQHnyF7TrL\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Spotify<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Svetlana<\/strong>: <em>\u041f\u0440\u0435\u0434\u043b\u0430\u0433\u0430\u044e \u0441\u043f\u0435\u0442\u044c \u201eMul\u021bi ani tr\u0103iasc\u0103!\u201d <\/em><br><strong>Oaspe\u021bii<\/strong>: <em>\u0414\u0430\u0432\u0430\u0439\u0442\u0435, \u043f\u0440\u0435\u043a\u0440\u0430\u0441\u043d\u043e!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen apartamentul 65 dintr-o cl\u0103dire sovietic\u0103 d\u0103r\u0103p\u0103nat\u0103 este s\u0103rb\u0103toare. G\u0103l\u0103gia se scurge \u0219i \u00een coridorul \u00eentunecos, unde-mi scot papucii \u0219i-i ofer gazdei un buchet de trandafiri. Lumini\u021be de Cr\u0103ciun multicolore at\u00e2rn\u0103 pe pere\u021bii antreului \u2013 preg\u0103tirile pentru venirea anului 2020 sunt \u00een toi, de\u0219i st\u0103p\u00e2nii casei au motive mai importante de celebrare.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Irina<\/strong>: \u201eAzi, 26 decembrie, e ziua mea de na\u0219tere \u0219i, \u00een acela\u0219i timp, celebr\u0103m \u0219i o alt\u0103 chestie. M\u0103mica mea va \u00eemplini 70 de ani pe 10 ianuarie. Cu p\u0103rere de r\u0103u, eu nu voi fi aici, deci celebr\u0103m \u0219i ziua ei. Ne-am cump\u0103rat un tort pe care scrie \u201eAproape 70 de ani\u201d. \u0218i c\u00e2nd am \u00eentrebat-o azi c\u00e2\u021bi ani \u00eempline\u0219te, la \u00eenceput mi-a spus 22, dup\u0103 asta s-a g\u00e2ndit pu\u021bin \u0219i a zis 65. \u0218i c\u00e2nd i-am zis c\u0103 \u00eempline\u0219te 70 de ani, a zis: \u201eM\u0103i, dar sunt b\u0103tr\u00e2n\u0103\u201d.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ai auzit-o pe Irina, care ast\u0103zi \u00eempline\u0219te 46 de ani. O blond\u0103 \u00eenalt\u0103, tras\u0103 ca prin inel, cu ochi alba\u0219tri, femeia nu se \u00eenscrie \u00een peisajul apartamentului \u00eenvechit, de\u0219i \u0219i-a petrecut anii de adolescen\u021b\u0103 aici, al\u0103turi de p\u0103rin\u021bii s\u0103i. Acum c\u00e2teva zile, Irina a revenit din Statele Unite ale Americii de dragul mamei sale \u2013 Anastasia. Vrea s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 o bon\u0103, care s\u0103 aib\u0103 grij\u0103 de cas\u0103 \u0219i de maic\u0103-sa, care are demen\u021b\u0103 de tip Alzheimer. Din 2011, boala devine tot mai sever\u0103 \u0219i fur\u0103 tot mai mult din memoria \u0219i personalitatea Anastasiei. Dar azi Irina \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 nu se g\u00e2ndeasc\u0103 la asta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><strong>Irina<\/strong>: \u201eNu \u021bine minte ce v\u00e2rst\u0103 are, dar oricum noi \u0219tim \u0219i consider c\u0103 e o zi foarte important\u0103. Mai ales c\u0103 nu voi fi aici, am hot\u0103r\u00e2t parc\u0103 s\u0103 ne schimb\u0103m cu zilele, cu toate c\u0103 e ziua mea, de fapt, e ziua ei. Oricum, fiecare zi e ziua ei&#8230;\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Irina nu a vrut s\u0103-\u0219i bat\u0103 capul cu preg\u0103tirea m\u00e2nc\u0103rii \u0219i a comandat bucate la restaurantul unei prietene. Pe mas\u0103 sunt blinii, legume, pl\u0103cinte&#8230; Au s\u0103rit \u00een ajutor \u0219i rudele, care au adus bun\u0103t\u0103\u021bi de cas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Irina<\/strong>: <em>\u201e\u0218i tanti Ala a f\u0103cut salata aceasta, a f\u0103cut vinegreta \u0219i a f\u0103cut g\u0103lu\u0219tele.\u201d<\/em><br><strong>Ala<\/strong>: <em>\u201eLua\u021bi \u0219i gusta\u021bi!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aceast\u0103 zi de na\u0219tere e o ocazie rar\u0103 ca rudele \u015fi prietenii familiei Irinei s\u0103 fie al\u0103turi. Femeia este stabilit\u0103 peste Atlantic deja de 22 de ani. Pred\u0103 matematica la o universitate din statul Pennsylvania \u0219i este absorbit\u0103 de jobul s\u0103u. \u0218tiin\u021bele exacte \u00eei erau aproape din copil\u0103rie, cele sociale erau prea politizate \u00een perioada sovietic\u0103, spune Irina. Era elev\u0103-model la \u0219coal\u0103, \u00eei pl\u0103cea s\u0103 petreac\u0103 acolo c\u00e2t mai mult timp. Visul ei era un doctorat peste hotare. C\u00e2nd a primit peste zece oferte de la diferite universit\u0103\u021bi americane, \u0219i-a f\u0103cut bagajele \u0219i a plecat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acum, Irina e american\u0103 \u00een acte \u0219i dup\u0103 port. De Moldova o mai leag\u0103 mama \u0219i amintirile, pe care le deap\u0103n\u0103 la mas\u0103 cu cei dragi. Folose\u0219te limba rus\u0103, dar trece fluent la limba rom\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd e nevoie. Irina vine dintr-o familie de intelectuali din Chi\u0219in\u0103u. P\u0103rin\u021bii ei f\u0103ceau parte din cercurile locale de art\u0103 \u0219i literatur\u0103. Apartamentul \u00eenc\u0103 mai p\u0103streaz\u0103 dovezi ale acestui fapt: zeci de discuri de vinil, o bibliotec\u0103 plin\u0103 cu c\u0103r\u021bi, tablouri pe pere\u021bi. Pe ici-colea sunt la vedere fotografii de familie, cu fa\u0163a Irinei \u015fi cele ale oamenilor dragi z\u00e2mbind din trecut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"199\" height=\"54\" src=\"https:\/\/suntbine.md\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/decorative-line-black-transparent-png-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-644\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Am ajuns la Irina acas\u0103 datorit\u0103 unui reportaj, pe care l-am scris \u00een 2017&nbsp; pentru <em>Moldova.org<\/em>, despre dou\u0103 familii afectate de Alzheimer. Vara trecut\u0103, \u00een iunie, am primit primul mail de la Irina, care-mi citise textul \u0219i c\u0103uta mai multe informa\u021bii pentru a-\u0219i ajuta mama, diagnosticat\u0103 de cur\u00e2nd cu aceast\u0103 afec\u021biune. Iat\u0103 ce-\u0219i aminte\u0219te Irina din acea perioad\u0103:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><strong>Irina<\/strong>: \u201eNu \u0219tiam unde s\u0103 m\u0103 duc, adic\u0103 m\u0103 uitam pe internet \u0219i nu g\u0103seam nimic despre boala Alzheimer \u00een Moldova \u00een afar\u0103 de articolul Victoriei Colesnic \u0219i, c\u00e2nd am citit, i-am scris un email c\u0103 nu \u0219tiam ce s\u0103 mai fac, nu \u0219tiam unde s\u0103 m\u0103 duc&#8230;\u201d &nbsp;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>I-am f\u0103cut leg\u0103tura cu personajele din reportaj, iar o lun\u0103 mai t\u00e2rziu, c\u00e2nd Irina a venit din nou \u00een Moldova, ne-am \u0219i v\u0103zut. Mi-a povestit c\u00e2t de greu \u00eei este s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 o bon\u0103 \u0219i c\u00e2t de mult \u00eei lipse\u0219te s\u0103 mearg\u0103 cu mama la coafor, un ritual respectat ani \u00een \u0219ir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0219a era via\u021ba cu mult timp \u00eenaintea demen\u021bei Alzheimer. Pe atunci, Anastasia era o femeie t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103 \u0219i sprinten\u0103, gata s\u0103 sar\u0103 \u00een ajutorul oricui avea nevoie. Svetlana este o prieten\u0103 a familiei, se cunosc de jum\u0103tate de secol. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Svetlana<\/strong>: \u201e\u00centreba\u021bi pe oricine, trece\u021bi prin tot blocul \u0219i vorbi\u021bi cu to\u021bi vecinii, to\u021bi v\u0103 vor spune c\u0103 Anastasia era o femeie energic\u0103 \u0219i inteligent\u0103, care a lucrat toat\u0103 via\u021ba \u00een calitate de inginer, \u0219i nu pur \u0219i simplu inginer, dar \u00eentr-un departament de cercet\u0103ri \u015fi proiect\u0103ri. Ajuta to\u021bi vecinii din bloc c\u00e2nd aveau nevoie s\u0103 scrie vreo pl\u00e2ngere \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu pl\u0103\u021bile comunale, func\u021bionarea contoarelor sau dac\u0103 aveau probleme cu salubrizarea cur\u021bii. To\u021bi veneau la ea, iar d\u00e2nsa scria tot de ce era nevoie \u0219i b\u0103tea pragurile tuturor instan\u021belor.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2907\" height=\"2906\" src=\"https:\/\/suntbine.md\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/1-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1131\"\/><figcaption>Ilustra\u021bie de Ana Grigorovscaia<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Via\u021ba familiei s-a schimbat \u00een 2011, odat\u0103 cu moartea tat\u0103lui Irinei. Anterior, medicii \u00eei depistaser\u0103 o tumoare la creier \u0219i l-au operat de urgen\u021b\u0103, dar dup\u0103 o c\u0103dere starea lui s-a \u00eenr\u0103ut\u0103\u0163it. A ajuns paralizat la pat. Murea \u00eencet&#8230; S-a stins \u00een decurs de \u0219ase luni. \u00cen tot acest timp, \u00eei purtase de grij\u0103 Anastasia. (Ea spune c\u0103 a putut s\u0103 fie cu so\u021bul p\u00e2n\u0103 la final \u0219i c\u0103 a murit, practic, \u00een bra\u021bele ei, acesta fiind cel mai greu moment.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><strong>Anastasia<\/strong>: \u201eVia\u021ba nu a fost simpl\u0103. Dar, Dumnezeu ne-a ajutat. Ceea ce a ie\u0219it&#8230; C\u0103&#8230; Am putut&#8230; s\u0103 fiu cu so\u021bul p\u00e2n\u0103 la final, el a murit, practic, \u00een bra\u021bele mele \u0219i acesta cred c\u0103 a fost cel mai greu moment.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Irina<\/strong>: \u201eEa dormea foarte pu\u021bin \u0219i dup\u0103 ce tata a murit, mi-am dat seama deja atunci c\u0103&#8230; mentalitatea i s-a schimbat \u0219i nu mai g\u00e2ndea ra\u021bional deloc. Era clar c\u0103, din punct de vedere intelectual, capacit\u0103\u021bile ei au sc\u0103zut foarte mult.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aceste prime semne de demen\u021b\u0103 au ap\u0103rut acum un deceniu. Nimeni nu s-a prins la \u00eenceput c\u0103 e vorba de Alzheimer. La urma urmei, oamenii \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103 mai uit\u0103 unde \u0219i-au pus ochelarii sau dac\u0103 au pl\u0103tit factura la lumin\u0103. Anastasia sim\u021bea c\u0103 memoria o \u00een\u0219al\u0103 \u0219i \u00eencerca s\u0103 o p\u0103c\u0103leasc\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Anastasia<\/strong>: \u201eEu \u00eemi notez: am primit pensia, am achitat facturile&#8230; M\u0103run\u021bi\u0219uri precum p\u00e2inea, dac\u0103 asta cost\u0103 copeici, nu le includ, dar dac\u0103 e ceva mai costisitor&#8230;\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anastasia spune c\u0103-\u0219i nota \u00eentr-un carnet c\u0103 a primit pensia, a achitat facturile. Dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva zile, f\u0103cea totalurile \u0219i calcula c\u00e2t i-a r\u0103mas. \u00cen felul \u0103sta, se asigura c\u0103 totul e bine \u0219i nu a pierdut ace\u0219ti bani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Anastasia<\/strong>: \u201e\u0218i dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva zile fac totalurile. Iat\u0103: am avut at\u00e2\u021bia bani, calculez c\u00e2t mi-a r\u0103mas, pentru ce am cheltuit \u0219i m\u0103 verific singur\u0103 pe mine, dac\u0103 totul e bine. M\u0103 asigur c\u0103 n-am pierdut ace\u0219ti bani.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cu timpul \u00eens\u0103, simptomele au devenit tot mai severe. Irina \u00een\u021belegea c\u0103 ceva nu este \u00een regul\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Irina<\/strong>: \u201eSe temea foarte mult s\u0103 fie singur\u0103, dar din alt punct de vedere, se purta foarte paranoic. De fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd ie\u0219ea din apartament, \u00eenchidea apa. A auzit istoria asta &#8211; c\u0103 o persoan\u0103, \u00een Moldova, s-a \u00eencuiat cumva \u00een baie, nu a putut deschide u\u0219a \u0219i era singur\u0103\u2026 \u015ei ce-a f\u0103cut? A venit acas\u0103 \u0219i a scos toate lac\u0103tele, a scos lac\u0103tul de la balcon \u0219i \u00een baie a scos lac\u0103tele, din cauza c\u0103 se temea c\u0103 se vor \u00eenchide&#8230;\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen 2018, Anastasia a \u00eencetat s\u0103 mai scrie \u00een carnet. Irina a observat c\u0103 mama ei pierde no\u021biunea timpului. Uit\u0103 c\u0103 a m\u00e2ncat \u0219i se poate trezi noaptea crez\u00e2nd c\u0103 e ora mesei. Pentru a o ajuta s\u0103 se orienteze prin apartament, a lipit pe pere\u021bi bile\u021bele cu instruc\u021biuni: \u201enu uita s\u0103 stingi lumina\u201d, \u201es\u0103 te speli pe m\u00e2ini\u201d sau \u201e\u00eenchide apa la robinet\u201d. Pe u\u0219a de la intrare, cu litere cursive, a scris: \u201eMama, totul este bine\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><strong>Irina<\/strong>: \u201eDe exemplu, vara o \u00eentrebam ce lun\u0103 e acum \u0219i ea-mi spunea aprilie sau martie. \u0218i era iulie. Normal c\u0103 nu \u0219tie ce an e, dar nu \u0219tie ce an e demult. De vreo cinci ani nu \u0219tie ce an e. Descrip\u021bia cea mai simpl\u0103 &#8211; ca un copil de doi ani. Care e absolut convins c\u0103 e adult.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"199\" height=\"54\" src=\"https:\/\/suntbine.md\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/decorative-line-black-transparent-png-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-644\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen lume, sunt cunoscute mai multe tipuri de demen\u021b\u0103, dintre care Alzheimer e cel mai r\u0103sp\u00e2ndit, responsabil pentru 70% dintre cazuri. Nu \u0219tim c\u00e2\u021bi oameni sunt afecta\u021bi \u00een Republica Moldova, \u00eens\u0103 potrivit datelor din afar\u0103, unul din 14 oameni cu v\u00e2rsta de peste 65 de ani risc\u0103 s\u0103 dezvolte Alzheimer sau un alt tip de demen\u021b\u0103. Psihiatrul \u0219i psihoterapeutul Grigore Garaz ne spune mai multe:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><strong>Grigore Garaz<\/strong>: La nivel mondial, OMS ofer\u0103 cifra de 50 de milioane de oameni care au demen\u021b\u0103, o cifr\u0103 destul de m\u0103ricic\u0103, aproape 60% tr\u0103ind \u00een \u021b\u0103rile cu venituri mici \u0219i medii. Suntem \u00een zona de risc, \u00een sensul \u0103sta.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Potrivit specialistului, mul\u021bi oameni cu Alzheimer r\u0103m\u00e2n \u00een afara statisticii, fiindc\u0103 nu se adreseaz\u0103 la medic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Grigore Garaz<\/strong>: \u201eCel pu\u021bin \u00een teritoriul \u0103sta postsovietic, cultura spune c\u0103 to\u021bi \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nim \u0219i ca \u0219i cum ar fi o norm\u0103 faptul c\u0103 persoana \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103 are un comportament, de exemplu, mai straniu. Devine ca un copila\u0219, mai spun oamenii. C\u0103 e ok c\u0103 uit\u0103, c\u0103 e \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Demen\u021ba Alzheimer \u00een Moldova \u0219i incapacitatea statului | Sunt Bine Podcast\" width=\"825\" height=\"464\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/dDwSwiHQ-s4?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cens\u0103 acesta nu este un proces de \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nire normal. Problemele de memorie, de orientare \u00een spa\u021biu, schimb\u0103rile de personalitate, pierderea no\u021biunii timpului pot fi semne ale demen\u021bei. Doar un psihiatru sau un neurolog poate pune acest diagnostic \u00een baza mai multor teste, cum s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat \u0219i \u00een cazul Anastasiei. Dar din ce cauz\u0103 se dezvolt\u0103 demen\u021ba de tip Alzheimer? Din nou, Grigore Garaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Grigore Garaz<\/strong>: \u201eMediul de trai, calitatea dietelor, alimenta\u021bia, modul de via\u021b\u0103, prezen\u021ba tutunului, a alcoolului, a traumatismelor, o rela\u021bionare proast\u0103 \u00eentre persoane, izolare social\u0103 &#8211; toate vor duce la cre\u0219terea riscului de demen\u021b\u0103, inclusiv demen\u021ba Alzheimer.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oamenii care au un membru de familie cu Alzheimer prezint\u0103, teoretic, un risc u\u0219or sporit de a dezvolta \u015fi ei demen\u021b\u0103. Stilul de via\u021b\u0103 este \u00eens\u0103 mai important ca genetica, afirm\u0103 Garaz. Cauzele exacte r\u0103m\u00e2n, deci, necunoscute. Este cert \u00eens\u0103: creierul afectat de Alzheimer sufer\u0103 schimb\u0103ri. Dou\u0103 tipuri de proteine se depun pe sinapse ca ni\u0219te pl\u0103ci, formeaz\u0103 ghemuri, \u00eempiedic\u00e2nd neuronii s\u0103 mai comunice. \u00cen timp, ace\u0219tia degradeaz\u0103. Demen\u021ba de tip Alzheimer progreseaz\u0103 \u0219i nu se vindec\u0103. De aceea este important s\u0103 fie descoperit\u0103 la timp. Medicamentele existente amelioreaz\u0103 simptomele \u0219i \u00eencetinesc evolu\u021bia. Oamenii pot tr\u0103i cu Alzheimer chiar \u0219i 20 de ani. Problema const\u0103 \u00een calitatea vie\u021bii \u0219i siguran\u021ba ei, \u00een condi\u021biile \u00een care o persoan\u0103 care-\u0219i pierde memoria \u0219i alte func\u021bii vitale are nevoie de \u00eengrijire non-stop.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"199\" height=\"54\" src=\"https:\/\/suntbine.md\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/decorative-line-black-transparent-png-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-644\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Demen\u021ba Alzheimer nu cople\u0219e\u0219te o persoan\u0103 instant. Vine cu pa\u0219i mici, dar siguri. \u00cen cazul familiei Irinei, situa\u021bia s-a schimbat dramatic \u00een 2018, c\u00e2nd Irina a \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 nici ea, nici mama ei nu se mai pot descurca singure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Irina<\/strong>: \u201eAtunci am contactat-o pe vecin\u0103. Am v\u0103zut c\u0103 \u00eentre contactele mamei era o vecin\u0103 de la etajul 15, nu \u0219tiam cine e ea. Am sunat la u\u0219\u0103 \u0219i am spus: \u201eM\u0103 numesc Irina, sunt fiica Anastasiei, \u0219tiu c\u0103 sunte\u021bi prieten\u0103 cu ea \u0219i vreau s\u0103 v\u0103 l\u0103muresc situa\u021bia. \u00centr-o zi am s\u0103 m\u0103 apropii de dumneavoastr\u0103 \u0219i o s\u0103 v\u0103 cer mult mai mult\u201d. \u0218i a\u0219a \u0219i s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Miza pe vecin\u0103, fiindc\u0103 mama refuza categoric o bon\u0103. Irina i-a promis c\u0103 o pl\u0103te\u0219te, dac\u0103 vine periodic pe la mama ei sub pretextul unor vizite amicale. Femeia a ajutat-o pe Anastasia un timp, dar situa\u021bia ie\u0219ea de sub control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Irina<\/strong>: \u201e\u0218i m-a sunat, probabil, \u00een ianuarie \u0219i zice: \u201eM\u0103mica ta a le\u0219inat \u0219i miroase foarte mult a urin\u0103, nu se spal\u0103&#8230; \u0218i c\u00e2nd am vrut s\u0103 v\u0103d ce m\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103, avea numai ov\u0103z.\u201d 15:10 I-am trimis atunci bani, dac\u0103 se poate de aranjat&#8230; 15:20 Peste vreo dou\u0103 luni, m-a sunat \u0219i a spus: \u201eNu pot, e prea serios, nu reu\u0219esc\u201d.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bona deja nu mai era o op\u021biune, ci o necesitate. Rudele au apelat la agen\u021bii private, care promiteau ajutor calificat ce \u0163ine de asisten\u021ba persoanelor \u00een etate. Via\u021ba \u00eens\u0103 nu a devenit mai simpl\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Irina<\/strong>: \u201eAmbele bone pe care le-am v\u0103zut se mi\u0219cau foarte greu, adic\u0103 aveau probleme cu s\u0103n\u0103tatea \u0219i era foarte clar. Adic\u0103 bonele ar\u0103tau a\u0219a de parc\u0103 aveau nevoie \u0219i ele de bone. Am adus o alt\u0103 agen\u021bie \u0219i acum, \u00eentr-adev\u0103r, a venit o bon\u0103 care a fost sor\u0103 medical\u0103. \u00cen principiu, mi-a pl\u0103cut, dar s-a speriat. S-a speriat ea, a citit pe internet despre boala Alzheimer \u0219i a hot\u0103r\u00e2t c\u0103 e prea riscant.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen total, au schimbat patru ajutoare. A fost o bon\u0103 care \u00ee\u0219i lua copilul la lucru, alta dormea \u00een mijlocul zilei, a treia nu ie\u0219ea deloc la plimbare cu Anastasia, iar \u00een alt caz bona a lovit-o. Irina spune c\u0103 are \u0219i poze. \u00cen acel moment, a decis s\u0103 instaleze camere de luat vederi \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie \u0219i sufragerie, ca s\u0103 poat\u0103 monitoriza totul de la distan\u021b\u0103. I-a fost greu s\u0103 fac\u0103 acest pas, spune ea, fiindc\u0103 \u00een State dreptul la via\u021b\u0103 privat\u0103 e fundamental, dar nu mai putea risca siguran\u021ba mamei sale. Irina nu-\u015fi g\u0103sea lini\u015ftea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><strong>Irina<\/strong>: \u201eAm o responsabilitate s\u0103 fie totul bine cu m\u0103mica mea \u0219i eu sunt aici, nu sunt \u00een stare s\u0103 controlez cum merge, dac\u0103 totul e bine, m\u0103car acum am camere, dac\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103, dac\u0103 nu o bate, dac\u0103 o spal\u0103, dac\u0103 totul e bine.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Irina admite c\u0103 mama pe care o cuno\u0219tea at\u00e2t de bine nu mai e acolo. Rolurile lor s-au inversat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Irina<\/strong>: <em>\u041d\u0430\u043f\u0440\u0438\u043c\u0435\u0440 \u0434\u043b\u044f \u043c\u0435\u043d\u044f, \u043c\u0430\u043c\u0430, \u043e\u043d\u0430 \u0432\u0441\u0435 \u0432\u0440\u0435\u043c\u044f \u0437\u043d\u0430\u043b\u0430 \u0432\u0441\u0435. \u041c\u043e\u0436\u043d\u043e \u0431\u044b\u043b\u043e \u0441\u043f\u0440\u044f\u0442\u0430\u0442\u044c\u0441\u044f.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru ea, mama era omul care \u0219tie tot, \u00een a c\u0103rei \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219are te po\u0163i&nbsp; ascunde de orice problem\u0103. Acum, nu mai e posibil, spune Irina, a\u0219ezat\u0103 la masa din buc\u0103t\u0103rie. Acum, mama e un copil pentru ea. Dinamica dintre ele e alta. Nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 Irina nu-\u0219i mai iube\u0219te mama, dar emo\u021biile sunt diferite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Irina<\/strong>: <em>\u041a\u043e\u043d\u0435\u0447\u043d\u043e \u043c\u0435\u043d\u044f\u0435\u0442\u0441\u044f, \u044d\u0442\u043e \u043d\u0435 \u043e\u0437\u043d\u0430\u0447\u0430\u0435\u0442 \u0447\u0442\u043e \u0442\u044b \u043d\u0435 \u043b\u044e\u0431\u0438\u0448\u044c \u044d\u0442\u043e\u0433\u043e \u0447\u0435\u043b\u043e\u0432\u0435\u043a\u0430, \u043d\u043e \u0447\u0442\u043e-\u0442\u043e \u043c\u0435\u043d\u044f\u0435\u0442\u0441\u044f, \u0447\u0443\u0432\u0441\u0442\u0432\u0430 \u043c\u0435\u043d\u044f\u044e\u0442\u0441\u044f.<\/em><br><strong>Svetlana<\/strong>: <em>\u0410 \u0432\u043e \u0432\u0442\u043e\u0440\u044b\u0445, \u0442\u044b \u0434\u0430\u043b\u0435\u043a\u043e \u043e\u0442 \u043d\u0435\u0435, \u043d\u0430 \u0440\u0430\u0441\u0441\u0442\u043e\u044f\u043d\u0438\u0438.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen al doilea r\u00e2nd, e\u0219ti departe de ea, \u00eei spune Svetlana, dar Irina nu este de acord. Aceste emo\u021bii nu \u021bin de distan\u021b\u0103. Mama ei nu mai e omul de odinioar\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Irina<\/strong>:<em> \u042f \u0434\u0443\u043c\u0430\u044e \u0447\u0442\u043e \u044d\u0442\u0430 \u0447\u0430\u0441\u0442\u044c \u043d\u0435 \u0437\u0430\u0432\u0438\u0441\u0438\u0442 \u043e \u0440\u0430\u0441\u0441\u0442\u043e\u044f\u043d\u0438\u0438. \u042d\u0442\u043e \u043f\u043e\u0442\u043e\u043c\u0443 \u0447\u0442\u043e \u0447\u0435\u043b\u043e\u0432\u0435\u043a \u043f\u043e\u043c\u0435\u043d\u044f\u043b\u0441\u044f, \u0447\u0435\u043b\u043e\u0432\u0435\u043a \u0443\u0436\u0435 \u043d\u0435 \u0442\u043e\u0442. \u041c\u0430\u043c, \u0442\u044b \u043a\u0443\u0448\u0430\u0435\u0448\u044c \u0435\u0449\u0435 \u043a\u0435\u043a\u0441\u0438\u043a? <\/em><br><strong>Anastasia:<\/strong> <em>\u0414\u0430. <\/em><br><strong>Irina<\/strong>: <em>\u0414\u0430\u0432\u0430\u0439 \u0431\u043e\u043b\u044c\u0448\u0435 \u043d\u0435 \u043d\u0430\u0434\u043e. &nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Irina o \u00eentreab\u0103 pe mama dac\u0103 \u0219i-a mai luat o felie de chec \u0219i o roag\u0103 s\u0103 nu mai m\u0103n\u00e2nce. O s\u0103-\u0219i strice pofta de m\u00e2ncare \u0219i e ora pr\u00e2nzului. O \u00eendeamn\u0103 s\u0103 se a\u0219eze \u00een fotoliu s\u0103-\u0219i termine felia. \u00cei d\u0103 \u0219i o farfurie deasupra c\u0103reia s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nce. Mama o \u00eentreab\u0103 nedumerit\u0103 de ce ar avea nevoie de farfurie. Ca s\u0103 nu fac\u0103 firimituri, \u00eei spune grijuliu Irina. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Irina<\/strong>: <em>\u0412\u0441\u0435, \u0431\u043e\u043b\u044c\u0448\u0435 \u043d\u0435 \u043d\u0430\u0434\u043e. \u0411\u043e\u043b\u044c\u0448\u0435 \u043a\u0435\u043a\u0441\u0438\u043a\u0430 \u043d\u0435 \u043d\u0430\u0434\u043e. <\/em><br><strong>Anastasia<\/strong>: <em>\u0425\u043e\u0440\u043e\u0448\u043e. <\/em><br><strong>Irina<\/strong>: <em>\u041c\u044b \u0431\u0443\u0434\u0435\u043c \u043e\u0431\u0435\u0434\u0430\u0442\u044c, \u0434\u0430? \u041c\u044b \u0431\u0443\u0434\u0435\u043c \u043e\u0431\u0435\u0434\u0430\u0442\u044c. \u0422\u044b \u0434\u0430\u0432\u0430\u0439 \u0443\u0436\u0435 \u0441\u044f\u0434\u044c \u043d\u0430\u0434 \u043c\u0438\u0441\u043e\u0447\u043a\u043e\u0439, \u043a \u043a\u0440\u0435\u0441\u043b\u0435, \u0434\u0430\u0435\u0448\u044c \u044d\u0442\u043e\u0442 \u043a\u0435\u043a\u0441\u0438\u043a. \u041c\u0438\u0441\u043e\u0447\u043a\u0443 \u0432\u043e\u0437\u044c\u043c\u0438. <\/em><br><strong>Anastasia<\/strong>: <em>\u0410 \u0437\u0430\u0447\u0435\u043c \u043c\u0438\u0441o\u0447\u043a\u0430? <\/em><br><strong>Irina<\/strong>: <em>\u0427\u0442\u043e\u0431\u044b \u043d\u0435 \u043a\u0440\u043e\u0448\u0438\u0442\u044c. \u041a\u0440\u0430\u0441\u0438\u0432\u043e. <\/em><br><strong>Anastasia<\/strong>: <em>\u0425\u043e\u0440\u043e\u0448\u043e. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"199\" height=\"54\" src=\"https:\/\/suntbine.md\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/decorative-line-black-transparent-png-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-644\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd am v\u0103zut-o pe Irina pentru prima dat\u0103, \u00een vara anului trecut, dezn\u0103dejdea ei \u00eemi era cunoscut\u0103. Bunica mea a suferit un ictus cerebral pe c\u00e2nd aveam nou\u0103 ani. Din acel moment, nu \u0219i-a mai sim\u021bit jum\u0103tatea dreapt\u0103 a corpului. A locuit cu familia mea sau a m\u0103tu\u0219ii mele \u00een urm\u0103torii 15 ani. C\u00e2nd starea ei s-a \u00eenr\u0103ut\u0103\u021bit \u0219i ne-a fost fric\u0103 s\u0103 o l\u0103s\u0103m singur\u0103 \u00een cas\u0103, familia noastr\u0103 a decis s\u0103-i \u00eenchirieze un apartament \u0219i s\u0103-i g\u0103seasc\u0103 o bon\u0103. Am avut \u0219i noi experien\u021ba unei \u00eengrijitoare neprofesioniste. De aceea am recunoscut disperarea de pe fa\u021ba Irinei. Am v\u0103zut-o la mama mea, care a intervievat mai multe bone p\u00e2n\u0103 s\u0103 o g\u0103seasc\u0103 pe Iulia, o femeie bun\u0103 ca p\u00e2inea cald\u0103, care a avut grij\u0103 de bunica mea p\u00e2n\u0103 la sf\u00e2r\u0219itul vie\u021bii acesteia. C\u00e2nd Irina mi-a spus c\u0103 e \u00een c\u0103utarea unei bone, i-am recomandat-o pe Iulia. \u00cen decembrie, c\u00e2nd Irina a venit \u00een Moldova, a angajat-o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Iulia<\/strong>: <em>\u0415\u0441\u043b\u0438 \u0443\u0436\u0435 \u0434\u043e\u0433\u043e\u0432\u043e\u0440\u0438\u043b\u0438\u0441\u044c, \u0442\u0430\u043a \u044f \u043f\u0440\u0438\u0434\u0443. <\/em><br><strong>Anastasia<\/strong>: <em>\u0414\u0430. <\/em><br><strong><strong>Iulia<\/strong>: <\/strong><em>\u0418 \u0442\u0430\u043a&#8230; \u0418 \u043c\u044b \u0431\u0443\u0434\u0435\u043c \u0433\u0443\u043b\u044f\u0442\u044c \u043a\u0430\u0436\u0434\u044b\u0439 \u0434\u0435\u043d\u044c. <\/em><br><strong>Anastasia<\/strong>: <em>\u0422\u043e-\u0435\u0441\u0442\u044c \u0432\u044b \u0441\u0435\u0439\u0447\u0430\u0441 \u0443\u0445\u043e\u0434\u0438\u0442\u0435, \u0430 \u0443\u0442\u0440\u043e\u043c \u043f\u0440\u0438\u0434\u0435\u0442\u0435. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Iulia \u00eei promite Anastasiei c\u0103 va veni s\u0103 o \u00eengrijeasc\u0103 \u0219i se vor plimba \u00een fiecare zi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Iulia<\/strong>: <em>\u0425\u043e\u0440\u043e\u0448\u043e, \u0434\u043e\u0433\u043e\u0432\u043e\u0440\u0438\u043b\u0438\u0441\u044c?<\/em><br><strong>Anastasia<\/strong>: <em>\u0414\u0430. <\/em><br><strong>Iulia<\/strong>: <em>\u041d\u0443 \u0432\u0441\u0435, \u043f\u0440\u0435\u043a\u0440\u0430\u0441\u043d\u043e. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Iulia s-a n\u0103scut la nordul Moldovei, \u00eentr-o familie cu nou\u0103 copii. Mama ei a fost bolnav\u0103 timp \u00eendelungat, iar unul dintre fra\u021bi a stat \u00een scaun cu rotile. \u00cen trecut, Iulia a avut grij\u0103 de oameni imobiliza\u021bi, de bolnavi de cancer. \u00cen majoritatea cazurilor, a stat cu ei p\u00e2n\u0103 la sf\u00e2r\u0219it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><strong>Iulia<\/strong>: \u201eDac\u0103 nu \u00een\u021belegi omul, dac\u0103 nu ai trecut prin greut\u0103\u021bile astea, dac\u0103 nu \u0219tii tu&#8230; Dac\u0103 nu ai sim\u0163it pe propria piele, s\u0103 \u0219tii ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 boal\u0103, niciodat\u0103 nu-l vei \u00een\u021belege pe cel de-al\u0103turi \u0219i, mai ales, pe cel pe care-l \u00eengrije\u0219ti. Dac\u0103 nu ai dragoste, r\u0103bdare \u0219i dac\u0103 nu \u00een\u021belegi lucrul \u0103sta, pentru ce-l faci \u0219i cum \u00eel faci, niciodat\u0103 nu vei putea reu\u0219i s\u0103 treci prin toate greut\u0103\u021bile pe care le \u00eent\u00e2lne\u0219ti.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Irina<\/strong>: <em>\u0422\u0430\u043a \u043c\u0430\u043b\u044c\u0447\u0438\u043a\u0438 \u0438 \u0434\u0435\u0432\u043e\u0447\u043a\u0438. \u0421\u0435\u0439\u0447\u0430\u0441 \u043d\u0435\u0441\u0435\u043c, \u043d\u0435\u0441\u0435\u043c \u0441\u0442\u0430\u043a\u0430\u043d \u0434\u043b\u044f \u0448\u0430\u043c\u043f\u0430\u043d\u0441\u043a\u043e\u0433\u043e. \u041d\u0443 \u043a\u043e\u043d\u0435\u0447\u043d\u043e \u043d\u0435 \u043f\u0440\u043e\u0444\u0435\u0441\u0441\u0438\u043e\u043d\u0430\u043b\u044c\u043d\u044b\u0439 \u0441\u0442\u0430\u043a\u0430\u043d \u0434\u043b\u044f \u0448\u0430\u043c\u043f\u0430\u043d\u0441\u043a\u043e\u0433\u043e \u043d\u043e \u0432\u0441\u0435 \u0440\u0430\u0432\u043d\u043e, \u043c\u043e\u0436\u043d\u043e \u043f\u0438\u0442\u044c.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Irina toarn\u0103 \u0219ampanie \u00een pahare care mai de care, curate s\u0103 fie. Sufrageria mic\u0103 e ne\u00eenc\u0103p\u0103toare. Oaspe\u021bii au ocupat canapeaua \u0219i fotoliile. Au \u00eenchis televizorul, d\u00e2ndu-\u0219i seama c\u0103 oricum nu se uit\u0103 nimeni. Irina dirijeaz\u0103 s\u0103rb\u0103toarea, al\u0103turi de mama sa, care ba intr\u0103 activ \u00een discu\u021bii, ba se retrage \u00een t\u0103cere. Privirea Iuliei sare de la o farfurie la alta, av\u00e2nd grij\u0103 ca to\u021bi s\u0103 aib\u0103 gust\u0103ri. E ca \u0219i cum face parte din aceast\u0103 familie de ani de zile. Deja s-a f\u0103cut comod\u0103 \u00een apartament, spre bucuria Irinei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"199\" height=\"54\" src=\"https:\/\/suntbine.md\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/decorative-line-black-transparent-png-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-644\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Irina: <\/strong>\u201eE extraordinar\u0103. Are at\u00e2ta energie \u0219i dorin\u021b\u0103 de a schimba lucrurile spre bine, c\u0103 nu-mi vine s\u0103 cred. Acum, unica chestie &#8211; am frica asta tot timpul c\u0103 am s\u0103 o pierd. \u0218i nu-mi vine s\u0103 cred, dup\u0103 bona pe care am avut-o \u00eenainte de asta, nu-mi vine s\u0103 cred c\u0103 o am pe Iulia, e extraordinar\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unde e statul \u00een aceast\u0103 ecua\u021bie? Greu de spus. Nu exist\u0103 o list\u0103 public\u0103, accesibil\u0103 \u0219i curent\u0103 a serviciilor de stat la care ar putea apela persoanele \u00een situa\u021bii similare cu cea a Irinei. O practic\u0103 bun\u0103 e s\u0103 te adresezi la Centrul Comunitar de S\u0103n\u0103tate Mintal\u0103 din regiune \u0219i acolo vei primi \u00eendrum\u0103rile necesare. La momentul actual, se mizeaz\u0103 pe serviciul \u201eRespiro\u201d, care ofer\u0103 suport \u0219i supraveghere timp de 24 de ore persoanelor cu dizabilit\u0103\u021bi severe, \u00een cadrul unor centre specializate, pentru ca familia care le \u00eengrije\u0219te s\u0103 aib\u0103 un repaus de maximum 30 de zile pe an. De asemenea, se poate apela la serviciul de asisten\u021b\u0103 personal\u0103. Exist\u0103 \u015fi o echip\u0103 mobil\u0103 pentru situa\u021biile de criz\u0103. Totodat\u0103, sunt aziluri \u0219i internate psihoneurologice, \u00eens\u0103 nu exist\u0103 o list\u0103 consolidat\u0103 a acestora. Oricum, speciali\u0219tii descurajeaz\u0103 institu\u021bionalizarea. Asta se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 doar \u00een cazurile grave, c\u00e2nd nimeni nu e al\u0103turi. \u00centre timp, presiunea pe sistemul social devine tot mai mare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen Occident exist\u0103 a\u0219a-zisele \u201esate Alzheimer\u201d, care presupun un ansamblu de cl\u0103diri, printre care case pentru pacien\u021bi \u0219i spa\u021bii de relaxare, cum ar fi parcuri, cafenele, terenuri de sport. Unii critici se opun ideii unui \u201esat Alzheimer\u201d \u0219i consider\u0103 c\u0103 beneficiarii sunt indu\u0219i \u00een eroare. Cei care promoveaz\u0103 aceast\u0103 solu\u021bie sunt de p\u0103rere c\u0103 e cea mai uman\u0103 form\u0103 de asisten\u021b\u0103 pentru persoanele cu demen\u021b\u0103. Ace\u0219tia afirm\u0103 c\u0103 reziden\u021bii pot duce o via\u021b\u0103 c\u00e2t de c\u00e2t normal\u0103, cu vizite la prieteni, plimb\u0103ri \u00een voie \u0219i cine \u00een stil familial.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Accesul \u00eentr-un \u201esat Alzheimer\u201d ar fi putut deveni realitate \u0219i pentru pacien\u021bii din Republica Moldova. Institutul de Psihiatrie Socola din Ia\u0219i \u0219i Spitalul de Psihiatrie B\u0103l\u0163i au ini\u021biat un proiect \u00een acest sens, pentru perioada 2014-2020. Era vorba de o colaborare transfrontalier\u0103 Rom\u00e2nia-Moldova, sprijinit\u0103 \u00een mare parte cu bani europeni. Dar nu a fost s\u0103 fie. C\u00e2nd am c\u0103utat s\u0103 afl\u0103m care e soarta proiectului, administra\u021bia Institutului Socola a afirmat c\u0103 \u201eproiectul s-a blocat la a treia etap\u0103\u201d, din cauza c\u0103 partea moldoveneasc\u0103 \u201enu a depus documenta\u021bia solicitat\u0103\u201d. Vicedirectoarea Spitalului de Psihiatrie B\u0103l\u021bi, Lilia Ignatiuc, a explicat c\u0103 termenii pentru realizarea studiului de fezabilitate conform cerin\u021belor erau prea restr\u00e2n\u0219i. Totu\u0219i, ea spune c\u0103 vor continua \u00eencerc\u0103rile de a face parte din acest proiect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><strong>Lilia Ignatiuc: <\/strong>\u201eAcesta r\u0103m\u00e2ne un proiect al nostru nu doar strategic, dar \u015fi de suflet. Acum, clar c\u0103 \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu pandemia lucrurile se stopeaz\u0103, dar, cu siguran\u021b\u0103, ne dorim. Pentru c\u0103 este un proiect foarte interesant, este un proiect util \u0219i, cel mai important, este un proiect care coincide cu Planul de dezvoltare a sistemului de s\u0103n\u0103tate mintal\u0103, inclusiv cu Planul de s\u0103n\u0103tate pentru 2017-2021, aprobat la nivel na\u021bional.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen lipsa unui \u201esat Alzheimer\u201d, cu pu\u021bine servicii calitative de asisten\u021b\u0103 social\u0103 \u00een domeniul privat, cu resurse de stat limitate dedicate v\u00e2rstnicilor cu provoc\u0103ri de s\u0103n\u0103tate mintal\u0103, cine s\u0103 aib\u0103 grij\u0103 de aceste persoane? R\u0103spunsul pare s\u0103 fie: copiii acestora. Dac\u0103, la fel ca Irina, ai posibilit\u0103\u021bi financiare, po\u021bi angaja o bon\u0103. \u00cen caz contrar, statul ofer\u0103 consiliere membrilor familiei care se ocup\u0103 de \u00eengrijire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"199\" height=\"54\" src=\"https:\/\/suntbine.md\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/decorative-line-black-transparent-png-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-644\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Dup\u0103 ziua ei de na\u0219tere, Irina s-a \u00eentors \u00een Statele Unite. S-au scurs aproape \u0219ase luni de-atunci. Din cauza pandemiei de COVID-19, Irina n-a mai putut s\u0103 vin\u0103 \u00een Moldova, dar e mult mai lini\u0219tit\u0103 acum. Mama e \u00een siguran\u021b\u0103, iar starea ei este, deocamdat\u0103, stabil\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Irina<\/strong>: \u201eEu, la drept vorbind, nici nu pot s\u0103-mi \u00eenchipui ce avea s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple dac\u0103 n-a\u0219 fi schimbat bona. Lu\u00e2nd \u00een considerare ceea ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat, avea s\u0103 fie o tragedie dac\u0103 nu era Iulia acolo.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen timpul s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2nii, Irina este prins\u0103 cu studen\u021bii ei. Are 84 \u00een acest semestru \u0219i, fiindc\u0103 orele nu se mai \u021bin \u00een amfiteatre, le pred\u0103 pe Zoom. Rar ajunge s\u0103 vad\u0103 un film, spune Irina. C\u00e2nd are timp liber, \u00eel petrece cu prietenii. Din cauza diferen\u021bei de fus orar, sun\u0103 la Chi\u0219in\u0103u \u00een weekend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Irina<\/strong>: \u201eCum v\u0103 merge? V\u0103 plimba\u021bi, nu v\u0103 plimba\u021bi? Ajung bani? Vorbesc \u0219i cu ea [mama], dar ea nu prea vorbe\u0219te. Ultima dat\u0103 am avut o discu\u021bie mai substan\u021bial\u0103 cu m\u0103mica cu trei ani \u00een urm\u0103. Acum c\u00e2teva s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni, prima dat\u0103 mi-am amintit de m\u0103mica cum era c\u00e2nd eram mic\u0103 \u0219i mi-a fost dor de ea, dar nu mai e acea persoan\u0103 cam de vreo zece ani, iar \u00een ultimii trei ani e cu totul altcineva.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Irina \u0219tie c\u0103 demen\u021ba Alzheimer poate avea \u0219i o component\u0103 ereditar\u0103. Nu exclude c\u0103 ar putea \u0219i ea s\u0103 o dezvolte la un moment dat. Exist\u0103 teste genetice ce pot estima riscurile, dar Irina a refuzat s\u0103 le fac\u0103. \u0218tie c\u0103 nu poate preveni \u0219i nici trata complet demen\u021ba de tip Alzheimer. Irina \u00eens\u0103 are un plan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><strong>Irina<\/strong>: \u201eAm v\u0103zut cum tata a murit, c\u00e2t de greu a murit \u0219i eu sunt absolut sigur\u0103, eu cred \u00een eutanasie \u0219i m-am g\u00e2ndit c\u0103, dac\u0103 voi afla \u0219i dac\u0103 mi s-ar \u00eent\u00e2mpla (probabil c\u0103 voi avea aproximativ 70 de ani, 60 \u0219i ceva de ani), m\u0103 voi muta \u00een Elve\u021bia. Voi avea tot pensie din Statele Unite \u0219i totul va fi bine, m\u0103 voi muta \u00een Elve\u021bia \u0219i acolo lucrurile astea se decid destul de u\u0219or. Am s\u0103 decid c\u00e2nd vreau eu s\u0103 plec din via\u021b\u0103.\u201d &nbsp;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Admite c\u0103 pentru unele persoane a\u0219a op\u021biuni nu ar fi acceptabile, dar sper\u0103 s\u0103 fie \u00een\u021beleas\u0103. Nu e doar despre dorin\u021ba de a-\u0219i p\u0103stra independen\u021ba \u0219i abilitatea de a avea grij\u0103 de sine, spune Irina. E despre ceva mai mult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Irina<\/strong>: \u201eAm crescut \u00eentr-o familie foarte intelectual\u0103 \u0219i pentru mine mintea e acolo unde tr\u0103iesc. \u0218i dac\u0103 dispare casa mea, devin o alt\u0103 persoan\u0103, nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103 fiu \u00een via\u021b\u0103, c\u0103ci, practic, atunci e doar trupul meu \u0219i \u00eensu\u0219i faptul c\u0103 nu cred c\u0103 mai tr\u0103iesc eu \u00een corpul meu. Adic\u0103, s\u0103-mi las corpul c\u00e2nd mintea a murit? Nu mi se pare normal. Nu a\u0219 dori s\u0103 trec prin asta.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"199\" height=\"54\" src=\"https:\/\/suntbine.md\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/decorative-line-black-transparent-png-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-644\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Acest episod a fost realizat cu sprijinul <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.eda.admin.ch\/countries\/moldova\/ro\/home\/reprezentantse\/cooperare.html\" target=\"_blank\">Biroului de cooperare al Elve\u021biei \u00een Republica Moldova<\/a>. Opiniile exprimate ne apar\u021bin \u0219i nu reflect\u0103 neap\u0103rat punctul de vedere al donatorilor.<\/em> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Podcastul \u201eSunt Bine\u201d face parte dintr-un proiect mai larg de promovare a s\u0103n\u0103t\u0103\u021bii mintale, implementat de re\u021beaua de educatori de la egal la egal Y-PEER Moldova. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"text-align:center\"><a class=\"button\" href=\"https:\/\/suntbine.md\/?p=1135\"><span class=\"mdi mdi-rotate-90 mdi-google-podcast\"><\/span> \u041d\u0430 \u0440\u0443\u0441\u0441\u043a\u043e\u043c<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Irina, stabilit\u0103 \u00een Statele Unite, vine \u00een Moldova s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 o bon\u0103 pentru mama sa, care are demen\u021b\u0103 de tip Alzheimer. C\u0103l\u0103toria o aduce fa\u021b\u0103 \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 cu un sistem social \u0219ubred \u0219i frica unei pierderi inevitabile. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1108,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,6],"tags":[66,65,36,37],"class_list":["post-1096","episode","type-episode","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-podcast","category-season-1","tag-alzheimer","tag-dementa","tag-podcast","tag-suntbine"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>#3 Mama, totul e bine | Sunt Bine<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Irina, stabilit\u0103 \u00een Statele Unite, vine \u00een Moldova s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 o bon\u0103 pentru mama sa, care are demen\u021b\u0103 de tip Alzheimer. 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