{"id":1338,"date":"2020-10-20T13:43:10","date_gmt":"2020-10-20T13:43:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/suntbine.md\/?post_type=episode&#038;p=1338"},"modified":"2021-01-15T17:59:53","modified_gmt":"2021-01-15T17:59:53","slug":"viata-dupa-moarte","status":"publish","type":"episode","link":"https:\/\/suntbine.md\/?episode=viata-dupa-moarte","title":{"rendered":"#7 Via\u021ba dup\u0103 moarte"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><em>Aboneaz\u0103-te la podcastul \u201eSunt Bine\u201d \u0219i las\u0103-ne o recomandare! \ud83c\udf1f<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-layout-flex wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button is-style-outline is-style-outline--1\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-vivid-purple-color has-text-color wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/sunt-bine-podcast\/id1505037113\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Apple Podcasts<\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-button is-style-outline is-style-outline--2\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-vivid-red-color has-text-color wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.google.com\/feed\/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy8xODdiMzE5MC9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw==\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Google Podcasts<\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-button is-style-outline is-style-outline--3\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-vivid-green-cyan-color has-text-color wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/0uzfEeaELxUIpQHnyF7TrL\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Spotify<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\">Ana adun\u0103 frenetic o pung\u0103 cu haine. A sunat-o bunica Pelagheia \u0219i i-a spus s\u0103 vin\u0103 de urgen\u021b\u0103 la spital \u2013 bunicul are nevoie de opera\u021bie. G\u00e2ndurile \u0219i emo\u021biile sunt un ghem de haos, ca m\u00e2zg\u0103liturile unui copil pe h\u00e2rtie. Dar Ana e hot\u0103r\u00e2t\u0103 s\u0103-\u0219i men\u021bin\u0103 calmul. Trebuie s\u0103 ajung\u0103 la timp ca s\u0103-\u0219i vad\u0103 bunicul. Afar\u0103 e posomor\u00e2t, \u00een calendar e noiembrie 2017. Ana deschide u\u0219a taxiului, urc\u0103 \u015fi ma\u015fina porne\u0219te spre Spitalul Clinic Municipal \u201eSf\u00e2nta Treime\u201d. Simte cum emo\u021biile dau n\u0103val\u0103 \u0219i se scurg pe obraji. Ajuns\u0103 la spital, alearg\u0103 la etajul trei \u0219i \u00eel prinde pe bunic deja pe targ\u0103, gata de interven\u021bie. Ea \u00eei \u00eentinde m\u00e2na, Gheorghe o str\u00e2nge \u0219i-i spune: \u201eTotul va fi bine\u201d. U\u0219ile sec\u021biei de reanimare \u0219i terapie intensiv\u0103 se \u00eenchid. Ana cu bunica r\u0103m\u00e2n dup\u0103 u\u0219\u0103, a\u0219tept\u00e2nd s\u0103 se \u00eendeplineasc\u0103 promisiunea.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Ana<\/strong>: Biscui\u021bi mai avem? Cine mai vrea ciocolat\u0103? Hai noroc! Tr\u0103iasc\u0103 pr\u0103znicelul!<\/em><br><em><strong>Pelagheia<\/strong>: La mul\u0163i ani! Tr\u0103iasc\u0103! <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen apartamentul din Chi\u015fin\u0103u al familiei, \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103ria cu pere\u021bi portocalii, Ana toarn\u0103 ceai de plante \u00een trei c\u0103ni de por\u021belan. Pe mas\u0103, \u00een col\u021b, bunica Pelagheia a\u0219az\u0103 un buchet de flori. Mirosul dulceag se \u00eempr\u0103\u0219tie \u00een camera \u00een care totul e la \u00eendem\u00e2n\u0103. Covrigii, ciocolata, tartinele \u0219i biscui\u021bii stau aranja\u021bi \u00een farfurii pictate cu flori mici, rozalii. Anatoli, prietenul Anei, \u00ee\u0219i ia o tartin\u0103 cu sl\u0103nin\u0103, t\u0103iat\u0103 sub\u021bire &#8211; o delicates\u0103 a buc\u0103t\u0103riei ucrainene, bunica Anei fiind originar\u0103 din Ucraina.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Ana<\/strong>: Se nume\u0219te \u201eSl\u0103nin\u0103 transcarpatic\u0103\u201d. <\/em><br><em><strong>Anatoli<\/strong>: Cu miere \u0219i ceai.&nbsp;<\/em><br><em><strong>Ana<\/strong>: Cu miere \u0219i ceai! (r\u00e2de)<\/em><br><em><strong>Pelagheia<\/strong>: Cine e ucrainean \u0219i iube\u0219te sl\u0103nina?<\/em><br><em><strong>Ana<\/strong>: To\u021bi!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E o zi de octombrie, o s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103 obi\u0219nuit\u0103, \u00een care Ana \u0219i bunica ei au organizat, a\u0219a cum zic ele, \u201eun pr\u0103znicel\u201d. Aceast\u0103 no\u021biune inventat\u0103 chiar de ele vine din rus\u0103, unde \u201e\u043f\u0440\u0430\u0437\u0434\u043d\u0438\u043a\u201d \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103rb\u0103toare. Respectiv, \u201epr\u0103znicel\u201d e o s\u0103rb\u0103toare mic\u0103, \u00een s\u00e2nul familiei. O s\u0103rb\u0103toare a\u0219a cum f\u0103ceau pe vremuri, c\u00e2nd Ana era copil.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ana: <\/strong>\u201eDe fapt, un pr\u0103znicel nu neap\u0103rat \u00eensemna o mas\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103rcat\u0103, ca de s\u0103rb\u0103tori. Putea s\u0103 fie un chec cu fructe, sau ni\u0219te biscui\u021bi, sau \u00eenv\u00e2rtit\u0103 cu nuci \u0219i cu dulcea\u021b\u0103, sau&#8230; chestii care, de regul\u0103, bunicile le g\u0103tesc la sat, da?\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"199\" height=\"54\" src=\"https:\/\/suntbine.md\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/decorative-line-black-transparent-png-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-644\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>La \u00eenceput, Ana \u0219i sora ei mai mare au locuit cu p\u0103rin\u021bii la Chi\u0219in\u0103u. C\u00e2nd Ana a \u00eemplinit \u0219apte ani, p\u0103rin\u021bii au divor\u021bat. Mama Anei a plecat la munc\u0103 peste hotare, iar fetele s-au mutat \u00een satul bunicilor din raionul Nisporeni. \u00cen pofida distan\u021bei, au p\u0103strat mereu o rela\u021bie deosebit de cald\u0103 cu mama, men\u021binut\u0103 prin scrisori, vizite \u0219i discu\u0163ii telefonice frecvente. Ana a locuit cu bunicii p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een clasa a \u0219asea.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><strong>Ana:<\/strong> \u201eEu sunt o norocoas\u0103. Cred c\u0103 am avut o copil\u0103rie a\u0219a cum scrie \u00een c\u0103r\u021bi. O copil\u0103rie foarte liber\u0103, foarte frumoas\u0103, petrecut\u0103 la bunei \u00een sat. Sunt bunei-bunei, pe care \u00eei vizitezi doar de s\u0103rb\u0103tori, \u0219i sunt bunei-p\u0103rin\u021bi, a\u0219a cum au fost buneii mei pentru mine.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Acolo, \u00een casa bunicilor, s-a n\u0103scut tradi\u021bia pr\u0103znicelului. Pe-atunci, acest brunch sau dejun festiv avea loc \u00eentr-o odaie separat\u0103, numit\u0103 camera din fa\u021b\u0103, cea mai luminoas\u0103 dintre toate. \u00cen spatele ferestrelor mari, se deschidea o priveli\u0219te larg\u0103 a satului. Ana scotea din dulap cele mai fine ce\u0219ti \u0219i farfurii, iar bunicul Gheorghe culegea din gr\u0103din\u0103 flori proaspete, pe care le a\u0219eza \u00eentr-un buchet pe mas\u0103. Tot el \u00eei aducea Anei primele fructe coapte \u0219i \u00eei spunea cu drag: \u201eM\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103-le acum, flutura\u0219ul lui deda!\u201d. Dac\u0103 era o zi c\u0103lduroas\u0103 de var\u0103, familia mergea la sc\u0103ldat la iazurile din sat.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ana: <\/strong>\u201eBunelul \u00eenota foarte bine, eu tot \u00eenv\u0103\u021basem s\u0103 \u00eenot \u0219i iat\u0103 ne pl\u0103cea s\u0103 st\u0103m \u0219i s\u0103 ne b\u0103l\u0103cim foarte mult timp. \u0218i apoi bunica de pe mal era: haide\u021bi c\u0103 \u00eenghe\u021ba\u021bi, nu vede\u021bi, ave\u021bi buzele vinete, a\u021bi \u00eenghe\u021bat precis, ie\u0219i\u021bi la mal s\u0103 m\u00e2nca\u021bi ceva \u0219i s\u0103 v\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103lzi\u021bi.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cu bunica Pelagheia, Ana mergea la cules ciuperci \u00een p\u0103dure. C\u00e2nd oboseau, bunica avea un \u0219iretlic.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Cum s\u0103 treci prin doliu \u0219i pierdere | Sunt Bine Podcast\" width=\"825\" height=\"464\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/-uuoeHTQAT0?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ana: <\/strong>\u201eS\u0103 g\u0103sim un copac mai t\u00e2n\u0103r, neap\u0103rat mai t\u00e2n\u0103r, nu prea b\u0103tr\u00e2n, \u0219i s\u0103-l cuprindem, s\u0103-l \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219\u0103m cu ambele m\u00e2ini, s\u0103 \u00eenchidem ochii \u0219i s\u0103 ne imagin\u0103m cu lu\u0103m energie pozitiv\u0103 de la cop\u0103cel. \u0218i nu \u0219tiu cum, dar, \u00een mod minunat \u0219i miraculos, tehnica bunicii lucra imediat, pe loc, \u0219i ne sim\u021beam revigora\u021bi \u0219i plini de energie \u0219i ne continuam drumul mai departe prin p\u0103dure.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bunicul Gheorghe era, cum se spunea pe atunci, <em>\u201e\u043f\u0435\u0440\u0432\u044b\u0439 \u043f\u0430\u0440\u0435\u043d\u044c \u043d\u0430 \u0434\u0435\u0440\u0435\u0432\u043d\u0435\u201d<\/em>, adic\u0103 cel mai r\u00e2vnit burlac din sat. Fetele \u00eel urm\u0103reau cu privirea de fiecare c\u00e2nd mergea m\u00e2ndru pe strad\u0103. Gheorghe \u00eens\u0103 avea ochi doar pentru Pelagheia, o profesoar\u0103 de limba rus\u0103 la \u0219coala din sat. Ana \u00ee\u0219i aminte\u0219te c\u0103 bunica era o femeie sofisticat\u0103, chiar \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 prea multe haine \u00een dulap.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><strong>Ana: <\/strong>\u201eLa \u0219coal\u0103, bunica, de regul\u0103, purta c\u0103m\u0103\u0219i \u0219i fuste sau rochii foarte elegante \u0219i severe. Acas\u0103, \u00een schimb, bunica devenea mai molc\u0103lu\u021b\u0103 \u0219i mai c\u0103ldu\u021b\u0103, pentru c\u0103 schimba hainele severe de la \u0219coal\u0103 pe ceva mai comod, a\u0219a cum o fac, de regul\u0103, femeile acas\u0103: un h\u0103l\u0103\u021bel sau o rochi\u021b\u0103 cu flori.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>De profesie agronom, Gheorghe iubea p\u0103m\u00e2ntul. \u00cen curtea casei \u00eengrijea o gr\u0103din\u0103 cu trandafiri, despre a c\u0103rei frumuse\u021be \u0219tia tot satul. Mai avea o vie \u0219i o livad\u0103, unde-\u0219i petrecea mai tot timpul. \u00cen poza pe care Ana o \u021bine pe masa de la birou, Gheorghe e \u00eembr\u0103cat \u00een costum la patru ace \u0219i cu cravat\u0103, \u021bin\u00e2nd \u00een bra\u021be doi mot\u0103na\u0219i. Are un z\u00e2mbet at\u00e2t de larg, \u00eenc\u00e2t pare c\u0103 \u00eei vor cr\u0103pa obrajii. Ana mereu l-a asociat cu un actor de la Hollywood.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ana:<\/strong> \u201ePerfect piept\u0103nat, perfect ras, mirosea a parfum, \u00eenc\u0103l\u021b\u0103mintea lustruit\u0103, hainele c\u0103lcate, scrobite, cum se spune la noi. Tocmai sc\u00e2r\u021b\u00e2ie c\u00e2nd auzi c\u0103ma\u0219a sau sacoul. Pantalonii c\u0103lca\u021bi la dung\u0103. Iat\u0103 bunelul era imaginea b\u0103rbatului ideal al secolului trecut.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Odat\u0103, Ana venise de la \u0219coal\u0103 trist\u0103. Un coleg a \u00eempins-o \u0219i i-a spus ceva ur\u00e2t. Bunicul \u00eens\u0103 \u0219tia s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 ac de cojocul oricui, \u00ee\u0219i aminte\u0219te Pelagheia.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><strong>Pelagheia:<\/strong> \u201eBunicul ridic\u0103 receptorul \u0219i-l sun\u0103 pe tat\u0103l b\u0103iatului. B\u0103iatul t\u0103u a sup\u0103rat-o pe fata mea. Vorbe\u0219te, te rog, cu el. Dup\u0103 asta, b\u0103iatul n-a mai sup\u0103rat-o pe Ana.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd Ana venea \u00een vizit\u0103, Gheorghe avea grij\u0103 s\u0103 n-o lase s\u0103 mearg\u0103 pe jos de la traseu p\u00e2n\u0103 la casa bunicilor. Se oprea la marginea satului \u0219i-\u015fi a\u015ftepta nepoata \u00een Niva lui galben\u0103. O ma\u015fin\u0103 veche, pe care o tot repara cu r\u0103bdare. St\u0103tea sub ma\u0219in\u0103 at\u00e2t de mult timp, \u00eenc\u00e2t Ana \u0219i bunica f\u0103ceau glume pe seama idilei lui cu Niva. Dar Ana se bucura de fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd z\u0103rea ma\u015fina bunicului l\u00e2ng\u0103 \u015fosea.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ana:<\/strong> \u201eEra deja noiembrie, era foarte ploios \u0219i era cam frig \u0219i eu am ajuns \u00een jur de ora opt seara, era \u00eentuneric bezn\u0103-bezn\u0103 \u0219i traseul spre interiorul satului buneilor mei \u0219i spre casa noastr\u0103 are un drum \u0219erpuitor\u2026 \u00cen momentul \u00een care noi intram \u00een sat, vedeam lumina la ferestrele caselor \u0219i era a\u0219a de frumos \u0219i de idilic peisajul dat &#8211; \u00eentuneric bezn\u0103 \u0219i lumin\u0103 \u0219i sim\u021bi c\u0103 este c\u0103ldur\u0103 \u00een sat, pentru c\u0103 deja se f\u0103cea foc \u00een sob\u0103. \u0218i eu m\u0103 uitam, \u0219i bunelul spunea: \u201eFrumos, a\u0219a-i? Parc\u0103 e Rio de Janeiro!\u201d.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"199\" height=\"54\" src=\"https:\/\/suntbine.md\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/decorative-line-black-transparent-png-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-644\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Bunicul Gheorghe a fost \u00eenmorm\u00e2ntat \u00een satul lui de ba\u0219tin\u0103, \u00eentr-o zi gri \u0219i friguroas\u0103, pe 13 decembrie 2017. A fost petrecut de toat\u0103 familia \u0219i de o mul\u021bime de cons\u0103teni, veni\u021bi s\u0103-\u0219i ia r\u0103mas bun. Nimeni nu s-a a\u0219teptat c\u0103 Gheorghe va muri de cancer de colon, fiind diagnosticat \u00een toamna acelui an. \u00cen timpul opera\u021biei, medicii depistaser\u0103 metastaze. Dup\u0103 interven\u021bie, starea b\u0103rbatului s-a \u00eenr\u0103ut\u0103\u021bit treptat. Familia l-a pierdut \u00eentr-o noapte.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ana:<\/strong> \u201eDup\u0103 ce au trecut ritualurile astea \u0219i ne-am \u00eentors acas\u0103, ne-am dat seama c\u00e2t de asurzitoare e toat\u0103 lini\u0219tea asta \u0219i c\u00e2t e de goal\u0103 casa. \u0218i a fost complicat primele nop\u021bi. A fost complicat s\u0103 ne d\u0103m seama c\u0103 bunelul nu mai este, c\u00e2nd peste tot erau hainele lui, c\u0103m\u0103\u0219ile lui \u00eenc\u0103 aveau parfumul lui, lucrurile lui peste tot\u2026 \u015ei c\u00e2nd un om e at\u00e2t de prezent ca spirit \u0219i ca tot \u00een casa dat\u0103 \u0219i tu-\u021bi dai seama c\u0103 el, de fapt, nu mai este&#8230; Dar, pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 toat\u0103 triste\u021bea asta, a fost \u0219i un moment&#8230; Mie bunelul \u00eemi spunea \u201eflutura\u0219\u201d \u0219i, \u00een momentul \u00een care bunelul a decedat, \u00een casa noastr\u0103 a ap\u0103rut un flutura\u0219.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2048\" height=\"2048\" src=\"https:\/\/suntbine.md\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Ep.7.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1356\"\/><figcaption>Ilustra\u021bie: Ana Grigorovscaia<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Era un fluture din cei care p\u0103trund adesea seara, atra\u015fi de lumin\u0103. Cineva din familie i-a \u021binut \u0219i u\u0219a deschis\u0103, dar fluturele refuza s\u0103 ias\u0103 din buc\u0103t\u0103rie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ana: <\/strong>\u201e\u015ei noi atunci am \u00eenceput a\u0219a, cumva \u00een glum\u0103, am spus c\u0103 eu cred c\u0103 \u0103sta e bunelul \u0219i, de fapt, am stat s\u0103 observ\u0103m. \u015ei abia \u00eemi pare c\u0103 \u00een ziua c\u00e2nd se \u00eemplinesc 40 de zile, abia atunci flutura\u0219ul a plecat. Pe noi foarte tare ne-a lovit pierderea bunelului, el era cumva principalul \u0219i unicul b\u0103rbat din via\u021ba noastr\u0103 \u0219i, c\u00e2nd a plecat, noi am r\u0103mas foarte singuratice: eu, bunica, mama \u0219i sora mea.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Primele s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni \u0219i luni de doliu erau insuportabile. Valuri de durere cople\u015feau sufletele celor patru femei. Ana spune c\u0103 multe persoane le-au fost al\u0103turi \u0219i le-au sprijinit, dar li s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat s\u0103 aud\u0103 \u015fi chestii pe alocuri ne\u00een\u021belese.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><strong>Ana: <\/strong>\u201eUn lucru total lipsit de sens \u0219i de tact, a\u0219 spune, pe care l-am auzit era: \u201eDar c\u00e2t mai po\u021bi s\u0103 pl\u00e2ngi? Hai, ia-te-n m\u00e2ini! \u0102sta e bunelul, \u0103sta nu \u021bi-i tata, nu \u021bi-i mama ca s\u0103 pl\u00e2ngi a\u0219a\u201d. \u0218i am auzit lucrul acesta de la c\u00e2teva persoane \u0219i nici nu am intrat \u00een polemici \u0219i discu\u021bii s\u0103 le explic. Pentru cineva bunelul poate e o rud\u0103 \u00eendep\u0103rtat\u0103, dar pentru mine bunelul e o mare-mare parte din sufletul meu.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Bunica Pelagheia \u00eei spune Anei c\u0103 perioada aia a fost groaznic\u0103, singuratic\u0103 \u0219i dureroas\u0103.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>Ana: <\/em><\/strong><em>Ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 pentru tine sau cum ai sim\u021bit pierderea partenerului de via\u021b\u0103?&nbsp;<\/em><br><strong><em>Pelagheia: <\/em><\/strong><em>\u201eAsta e ca \u00een versurile dintr-o pies\u0103: \u201eZbori cu o singur\u0103 arip\u0103\u201d. C\u00e2nd nu ai un um\u0103r pe care s\u0103 te po\u021bi sprijini. \u00cen\u021beleg c\u0103 se zice c\u0103 ei ne vegheaz\u0103, c\u0103 ei sunt \u00eentotdeauna cu noi, c\u0103 sunt prezen\u021bi acolo unde suntem noi, dar nu este um\u0103rul pe care s\u0103 te po\u021bi sprijini, nu este m\u00e2na care s\u0103 te m\u00e2ng\u00e2ie, nu are cine s\u0103 te str\u00e2ng\u0103 \u00een bra\u021be \u0219i nu e nimeni care s\u0103-\u021bi zic\u0103: \u201eNu-\u021bi face griji, totul va fi bine!\u201d.<\/em>\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"199\" height=\"54\" src=\"https:\/\/suntbine.md\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/decorative-line-black-transparent-png-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-644\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Doliul este o acomodare for\u021bat\u0103 a min\u021bii \u0219i a sufletului la o realitate nedorit\u0103, spune psihologul \u0219i psihoterapeutul Sergiu Toma. \u0218i cu c\u00e2t mai drag\u0103 ne era persoana, cu at\u00e2t mai profund\u0103 va fi suferin\u0163a cauzat\u0103 de pierdere. Persoana \u00eendoliat\u0103 simte gol \u0219i triste\u021be, iar uneori pot ap\u0103rea simptome fizice, precum durerea de stomac, de cap, dispari\u021bia poftei de m\u00e2ncare, dureri \u00een piept.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Sergiu Toma: <\/strong>\u201eFaptul c\u0103 noi vom reac\u021biona la doliu este inevitabil, \u00eentrebarea este doar c\u00e2t de intens \u0219i cum se va exprima. Faptul c\u0103 noi reac\u021bion\u0103m este un semn bun, adic\u0103 faptul c\u0103 noi avem un r\u0103spuns negativ sau un r\u0103spuns dezechilibrat la pierdere este un semn bun, asta \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 noi am \u00eenceput procesul de acceptare, chiar dac\u0103 el \u00eencepe cu durere \u0219i o negare a ceea ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 reac\u021biile severe la doliu dureaz\u0103 mai mult de 12 luni de la decesul persoanei apropiate, exist\u0103 suspiciunea c\u0103 e vorba de doliu complicat persistent, se spune \u00een Manualul de Diagnostic \u0219i Statistic\u0103 a Tulbur\u0103rilor Mentale al Asocia\u021biei Americane de Psihiatrie. \u00cen acest caz, e bine s\u0103 apel\u0103m la ajutorul unui specialist de s\u0103n\u0103tate mintal\u0103.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Atunci c\u00e2nd a murit Gheorghe, fiecare membru al familiei a suferit o pierdere. Nepoatele \u0219i-au pierdut bunicul, mama lor \u0219i-a pierdut tat\u0103l, iar bunica Pelagheia \u0219i-a pierdut partenerul de via\u021b\u0103. Au fost c\u0103s\u0103tori\u021bi 51 de ani \u0219i au \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bit nenum\u0103rate bucurii \u0219i greut\u0103\u021bi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><strong>Pelagheia:<\/strong> \u201eCel mai dificil moment a fost c\u00e2nd m-am \u00eemboln\u0103vit \u00een 1976. Timp de doi ani medicii nu-mi puteau stabili diagnosticul. Trebuia deja s\u0103 umblu cu o c\u00e2rj\u0103, nu-mi sim\u021beam picioarele. \u00cen final, mi-au pus diagnosticul \u015fi am fost operat\u0103. Am avut o tumoare a m\u0103duvei spin\u0103rii \u0219i am supravie\u021buit. C\u00e2nd eram bolnav\u0103, noi am vorbit despre moarte. Eu vorbeam. Eu \u00eei spuneam: dac\u0103 voi muri, tu te vei \u00eensura cu altcineva. El se sup\u0103ra foarte tare. \u00cemi zicea: s\u0103 nu-mi spui a\u0219a ceva.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Pelagheia spune c\u0103-i este dor de toate momentele vie\u021bii lor, \u00een special de dimine\u021bile petrecute \u00eempreun\u0103.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Pelagheia:<\/strong> \u201eCei mai ferici\u021bi ani au \u00eenceput c\u00e2nd am ie\u0219it la pensie, bunicul a ie\u0219it la pensie, noi ne puteam permite s\u0103 st\u0103m mai mult \u00een pat. Lucram de prim\u0103var\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 vara, iar c\u00e2nd venea noiembrie, vinul era deja \u00een beci, totul era deja f\u0103cut. El se trezea, aducea lemne, f\u0103cea focul \u00een sob\u0103&#8230; Trosnetul lemnelor pe foc era a\u0219a de pl\u0103cut!.. Eu m\u0103 sculam, f\u0103ceam micul de dejun \u0219i luam masa \u00eempreun\u0103. Apoi, priveam televizorul. St\u0103team mult de vorb\u0103. Cu el puteai vorbi, era o persoan\u0103 interesant\u0103, cuno\u0219tea multe. \u00cen jurul casei aveam vie, \u00eei pl\u0103cea mult s\u0103 aib\u0103 grij\u0103 de vi\u021ba de vie. Iar acum eu o scot, fiindc\u0103 nu pot s\u0103 am grij\u0103 de ea, \u0219i spun: \u201eIart\u0103-m\u0103, Gheorghe, iart\u0103-m\u0103, vi\u021b\u0103 de vie, dar eu nu am puteri s\u0103 am grij\u0103 de voi. Dar de trandafiri am grij\u0103, ei \u00eenfloresc \u0219i r\u0103sp\u00e2ndesc peste tot aroma. \u0218i multe-multe alte flori.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Reac\u021bia la pierderea partenerului este, de regul\u0103, foarte puternic\u0103, fiindc\u0103 rela\u021bia dintre parteneri face parte din identitatea acestora, afirm\u0103 Sergiu Toma. Moartea unuia dintre ei afecteaz\u0103 \u0219i felul \u00een care cel r\u0103mas se va percepe pe sine \u00een continuare.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Sergiu Toma: <\/strong>\u201eC\u00e2nd persoanele \u00een etate \u00ee\u0219i pierd partenerii de via\u021b\u0103, la o v\u00e2rst\u0103 \u00eenaintat\u0103, dincolo de faptul c\u0103 ei tr\u0103iesc doliul pierderii partenerului, li se acutizeaz\u0103 frica de propria moarte, pentru c\u0103 moartea partenerului semnific\u0103 \u0219i apropierea lor de acest lucru.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unii consider\u0103 c\u0103 acceptarea mor\u021bii persoanei dragi \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 nu mai fii afectat de acest eveniment, dar nu e a\u0219a, consider\u0103 Sergiu Toma.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><strong>Sergiu Toma<\/strong>: \u201eAcceptarea \u0219i acomodarea \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i a fi \u00eentr-o anumit\u0103 m\u0103sur\u0103 afectat de acest eveniment, dar s\u0103 fii capabil, \u00een acela\u0219i timp, s\u0103 controlezi reac\u021bia ta \u0219i mai cu seam\u0103 este s\u0103-\u021bi po\u021bi vedea viitorul \u00eentr-un fel sau altul lu\u00e2nd cu tine acest doliu, adic\u0103 integr\u00e2nd sau accept\u00e2nd aceast\u0103 realitate \u00een viitorul t\u0103u.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Celebra psihiatr\u0103 Elisabeth K\u00fcbler-Ross a publicat \u00een 1969 cartea \u201eDespre moarte \u0219i a muri\u201d, unde a detaliat pentru prima dat\u0103 un model al etapelor doliului. Acesta con\u0163inea cinci etape: negarea, furia, negocierea, depresia, acceptarea. Cu timpul, diferite surse au explorat \u0219i alte etape, acum vorbindu-se despre \u0219apte sau mai multe trepte. \u00cens\u0103 este important s\u0103 \u021binem minte c\u0103 doliul e un proces solitar \u0219i nu exist\u0103 un a\u015fa-numit mod corect de a trece prin el.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"199\" height=\"54\" src=\"https:\/\/suntbine.md\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/decorative-line-black-transparent-png-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-644\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Ana nu putea s\u0103-\u0219i vad\u0103 bunica at\u00e2t de \u00eendurerat\u0103, \u0219tia c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fac\u0103 ceva. \u00cen prima iarn\u0103 dup\u0103 decesul bunicului, i-a propus s\u0103 se mute temporar la Chi\u0219in\u0103u.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><strong>Ana: <\/strong>\u201eAm putut, \u00eentre timp, s\u0103 mergem cu bunica \u00een Italia de dou\u0103 ori, la Ia\u0219i am f\u0103cut o scurt\u0103 excursie, \u00een Odesa am s\u0103rb\u0103torit ziua bunicii&#8230;\u201d&nbsp;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Ana spune c\u0103 regret\u0103 momentele pe care nu le-a tr\u0103it cu bunicul. Uneori viseaz\u0103 lucrurile pe care voia s\u0103 le fac\u0103 \u00eempreun\u0103. De exemplu, s\u0103 mearg\u0103 la mare. Are \u015fi o alt\u0103 dorin\u021b\u0103 ne\u00eemplinit\u0103.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ana: <\/strong>\u201eNoi tot timpul cu bunelul am avut un fel de \u00een\u021belegere c\u0103 \u00een ziua \u00een care eu o s\u0103 m\u0103 c\u0103s\u0103toresc bunelul o s\u0103 fie persoana care o s\u0103 m\u0103 duc\u0103 la altar. A\u0219a a fost \u00een cazul surorii mele mai mari \u0219i a fost un moment extraordinar de emo\u021bionant \u0219i a\u0219a am visat c\u0103 o s\u0103 fie \u0219i cu mine. \u0218i cu c\u00e2\u021biva ani \u00een urm\u0103, c\u00e2nd bunelul a avut un moment de cump\u0103n\u0103 \u0219i a fost la un pas de moarte, eu i-am spus: bunelul, \u021bine-te, tu doar \u021bii minte c\u00e2nd mi-ai f\u0103cut o promisiune. \u0218i el atunci a spus: \u201eDa, da, numaidec\u00e2t\u201d. Doar c\u0103 ultima dat\u0103, \u00een 2017, c\u00e2nd bunelul deja se sim\u021bea r\u0103u \u0219i eu l-am \u00eentrebat: \u201eBunelul, \u021bii minte? Tu o s\u0103 te \u021bii de promisiune, tu o s\u0103 m\u0103 duci la altar?\u201d La care el a spus: \u201eNu mai \u0219tiu\u201d. \u0218i atunci a fost unicul moment \u00een care bunelul s-a \u00eendoit de promisiunea lui. C\u00e2nd o s\u0103 vin\u0103 ziua \u00een care o s\u0103 m\u0103 c\u0103s\u0103toresc, eu totu\u0219i o s\u0103-mi imaginez c\u0103 bunelul m\u0103 duce la altar.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen fiecare zi, Ana \u0219i-ar fi dorit s\u0103-\u0219i aud\u0103 bunicul la telefon, \u00eentreb\u00e2nd-o cum se simte sau dac\u0103 a m\u00e2ncat, a\u0219a cum obi\u0219nuia. I-ar fi spus cu m\u00e2ndrie c\u0103 a c\u00e2\u0219tigat o burs\u0103 \u00een Marea Britanie, unde \u00ee\u0219i va face studiile de masterat \u00een domeniul comunic\u0103rii la Universitatea din Leeds. Din cauza pandemiei, Ana \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 acum la distan\u021b\u0103. Probabil, \u00eentr-un anumit moment, va trebui s\u0103 plece la studii. Deocamdat\u0103, Ana petrece c\u00e2t mai mult timp \u00eempreun\u0103 cu bunica ei.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ana: <\/strong>\u201eUn mic ritual pe care-l avem: \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 g\u0103tim ceva ce bunelului i-ar fi pl\u0103cut din bucate. \u0218i s\u0103 ne aducem aminte lucruri c\u00e2t mai frumoase despre bunelul.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Asta au f\u0103cut \u00eentr-o sear\u0103, \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103ria lor mic\u0103 din capital\u0103. Sorbind ceai la masa din col\u021b \u0219i z\u00e2mbind printre lacrimi, Ana \u0219i Pelagheia au dep\u0103nat cele mai dragi amintiri despre bunicul Gheorghe.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>Ana<\/strong>: \u00cemi aduc aminte cu bucurie cum, \u00eenainte de Anul Nou, bunicul aducea un brad proasp\u0103t \u00een cas\u0103.&nbsp;<\/em><br><em><strong>Pelagheia<\/strong>: Iar eu \u00eemi aduc aminte primul nostru brad! Mama ta era mic\u0103, avea doar un an, el a adus bradul, care a umplut toat\u0103 casa cu miros de conifer. Nu aveam nicio juc\u0103rie \u0219i am decorat acel brad cu juc\u0103rii de cauciuc: veveri\u021be, ursule\u021bi, juc\u0103riile mamei tale&#8230; Niciodat\u0103 nu voi uita asta!&nbsp;<\/em><br><em><strong>Ana<\/strong>: Iar eu \u021bin minte cum aveam un scr\u00e2nciob dup\u0103 cas\u0103 \u0219i bunicul aducea o pern\u0103&#8230;&nbsp;<\/em><br><em><strong>Pelagheia<\/strong>: Ca s\u0103 te duc\u0103 la culcare.&nbsp;<\/em><br><em><strong>Ana<\/strong>: \u0218i el m\u0103 d\u0103dea \u00een scr\u00e2nciob p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eencepeam s\u0103 adorm, iar apoi m\u0103 aducea acas\u0103 \u00een bra\u021be&#8230;&nbsp;<\/em><br><em><strong>Pelagheia<\/strong>: Ca s\u0103 te duc\u0103 la culcare.&nbsp;<\/em><br><em><strong>Ana<\/strong>: \u0218i el m\u0103 d\u0103dea \u00een scr\u00e2nciob p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eencepeam s\u0103 adorm, iar apoi m\u0103 aducea acas\u0103 \u00een bra\u021be&#8230;&nbsp;<\/em><br><em><strong>Pelagheia<\/strong>: Mi-am adus aminte c\u00e2nd a fost un mare cutremur, \u00een anii \u201980, dac\u0103 nu gre\u0219esc, \u0219i eu nu \u0219tiam ce e aia cutremur. (&#8230;) El avea o reac\u021bie mai bun\u0103.&nbsp;<\/em><br><em><strong>Ana<\/strong>: Iar eu \u021bin minte c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd m\u0103 sup\u0103ram, el venea dup\u0103 mine, m\u0103 g\u0103sea \u00eentotdeauna \u0219i-mi zicea: \u201eCe ai, draga mea? Sunt ni\u0219te fleacuri!\u201d&nbsp;<\/em><br><em><strong>Pelagheia<\/strong>: Da, toate sunt fleacuri\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Acest episod a fost realizat cu sprijinul <a href=\"https:\/\/www.eda.admin.ch\/countries\/moldova\/ro\/home\/reprezentantse\/cooperare.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Biroului de cooperare al Elve\u021biei \u00een Republica Moldova<\/a>. Opiniile exprimate ne apar\u021bin \u0219i nu reflect\u0103 neap\u0103rat punctul de vedere al donatorilor.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ana a avut o copil\u0103rie ca \u00een pove\u0219ti, fiind \u00eenconjurat\u0103 de dragoste \u0219i grij\u0103. 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